What is bi bi baby?

bi bi baby is an exclusive new monthly bisexual party event for boys who like girls, girls who like boys, boys who like boys and girls who like girls. bi bi baby is an environment where everyone can come and play and indulge their fantasies in a sex positive, safe and controlled space.

When is bi bi baby?

Every 3rd Saturday of the month.

Where is bi bi baby?

Romford, Essex, just 5 minutes walk from Romford Station.

How much is bi bi baby?

It's £20.00 for a single guy, £20.00 for couples.  Single girls are admitted free of charge.

Hang on a minute!  Single girls free of charge?!  That’s a bit dodgy isn’t it?  Does that mean we have to sh*g all the single guys then?! 

No! of course it doesn't. Although play is obviously encouraged, No, definitely means no, and should the unlikely situation ever occur, this ruling will be strictly enforced. The truth is that women are traditionally more cautious about turning up for these kinds of events. Free admission will hopefully serve as an incentive for girls to attend.

What’s the venue like?

It's a large venue. It has a reception area. Three big open playrooms, 2 smaller, lockable, playrooms (one with two-way mirror) A dance floor, and a kitchen selling tea, coffee and soft drinks. They are not licensed but you are welcome to bring your own alcohol. We would also appreciate it if you could purchase your soft drinks, tea and coffee from the venue as it helps to keep down costs.  The toilets are clean and well maintained.

You have a dance floor, brilliant!  What’s your music policy?

We don’t have one in terms of style and although we have a dancefloor and you are welcome to dance on it, bear in mind that bi bi baby’s music levels will ALWAYS be conversation friendly.

Is there accommodation nearby?

Yes, there are hotels and guesthouses nearby.

What about public transport?

There are 24 hour bus services running back into Central London

Can I smoke?

Smoking is not allowed in the venue itself but there is an open space at the back of the venue where smokers can go.

Do I have to be bisexual to go?

No, you just need to be bi-friendly, comfortable in a bisexual environment and appreciate that this club has been set up primarily for bisexuals. 

Do I need to become a member?  how much does it cost?

Membership is free.  You need to fill out a membership form at reception (takes two minutes and is only ever seen by the club’s proprietor.)

You refused me any future invites.  Why?!

Because of your attitude and lack of respect.  bi bi baby prides itself on being friendly and egalitarian.  Bad attitude/disrespect towards anyone for no reason will under no circumstances be tolerated.

I’m new to this kind of thing and not sure what to do if I want to join in? What is acceptable behaviour and what isn’t?

An excellent question.  It’s really just down to common sense, decency and respect.  The bottom line is to simply ‘ask.’ 

The best way is to talk to people, get to know them first.  If there’s a scene(s) going on in any of the open playrooms, you can take it as read that it’s ok to watch.  Then slowly, gradually approach.  You might be told to ‘keep your distance.‘  If that’s the case, then do the right and decent thing and respect their wishes, ‘keep your distance and enjoy the show.

If it’s ok to approach and you want to touch, then simply ask the person you want to touch, if it’s ‘o.k. to touch?’ If its ‘yes’ then have fun.  If it’s ‘no’ don’t take it personally.  They’ve very likely said no because they are comfortable with the scene as it is.

If there’s a scene happening in one of the lockable playrooms and the door is closed/locked, leave them alone to enjoy their scene.  Please don’t knock on the door as this can be off-putting and disrespectful.

Can I come dressed as a girl?

No problem.  bi bi baby strives to be as inclusive and diverse as is feasible, without compromising bi bi baby’s commercial viability.

Can I run around in the nude?

Again, not a problem, but I’d ask that you wait until you’re well and truly inside the club first.  You might also want to bring a sports bag or something similar for easy clothes storage.  If that’s not possible or convenient, we can supply plastic sacks for your clothes and cash bags, so that you can keep any money you might need in your sock, or shoe. 

Please note: for Health And Safety reasons, nudity is not allowed in the kitchen area.

Do you encourage safer sex?

Absolutely!

Do you supply condoms?

Yes and at no cost to you.  If you prefer to use your own, that’s fine too.

Can I bring toys and implements?

Of course, but the health and safety aspects of toys and toy sharing is your responsibility.

I’m into BDSM, is the venue equipped for this

Yes it is, but the equipment belongs to another BDSM club that hire out the venue and have given their kind permission for us to use some of it, so please make sure you treat all equipment with the utmost respect.

Are there any other ‘distractions?’

Well, apart from the obvious there’s also going to be Naked Twister and Truth Or Dare.

There has to be rules right? I mean, there are always rules.

Well apart from employing common sense and being nice, not too many. The main rule of bi bi baby is:

Thou shalt not annoy!!

The others are:

1.     That each member respect the space and choices of others.
   

1.     That NO means NO!
   

1.     That pestering is out of order!
   

1.     That you respect the venue, environment, equipment and ethos of bi bi baby.
   

This sounds intriguing and all rather fabulous.  What’s the address?

Whoa there!  Hold your horses.  I'll be operating a guest list policy, which shouldn't imply free admission to everyone on it, but rather that I have a record of who's coming and can at least try to 'police' things a little better and to maintain the exclusivity, I talked about earlier.

Well if I can’t just turn up, how do I ‘turn up?’

click on picture below...